Monday, 4 December 2017

Ladies Embrace your curves

I’ve never been one of those lucky ladies who can eat endless amounts of pasta, Fufu ,Eru anything which is fatty  and brownies for dessert without consequences. The skinny jeans that I bought in the hopes of losing a few pounds still don’t exactly zip up. I’ve done endless carbless diets, started and quickly gave up on exercise programs, and have worn a lot of black to hide a few extra inches here and there. Going into the  holiday season, I’ve decided it’s time to stop feeling ashamed of the extra “me.” I’ll still envy and secretly wish for the long, lean bodies around me, but will include my own in that admiration. Here’s why:

1. Curves fill out a good pair of jeans like it’s nobody’s business. They add something to look at and admire. 

2. We may never look like an exotic perfume model running elegantly in the woods, but the right dress will cling to our curves in all the right places. 

3. Our bodies can stop traffic with the deadly combination of a fitted dress or tight skirt, and a bit of confidence.

4. Curves it’s not fat ,It’s such a shame that the words “fat” and “thin” come into discussions about body shape when the human figure is never that black and white. In the words of iconic fashion designer Karl Lagerfeld, curves are not the result of “eating chips on the couch”, they’re part of your genetics. Just because your body is not a straight line doesn’t mean that you are overweight. So never label yourself as “fat”, because fat and curvy are totally separate. 

5. Your curves keeps you young,It’s true - even just a little bit of body fat keeps your skin looking younger, plumper and wrinkle-free. That healthy, rosy-cheeked look that we associate with our twenties.

That healthy, rosy-cheeked look that we associate with our twenties is really due to subcutaneous fat deposits keeping our skin looking full and smooth. Curvy women are known for being softer, smoother and looking more feminine, simply because of their extra body fat. Your curves may not stop the clock from ticking but they’ll definitely keep you looking young!
6. Women love your curves too.Have you ever considered that you might be someone else’s ideal? Many women work just as hard to get your Beyonce-esque curves as you do to get their stick-like pins. According to Dr. Steven Platek women are drawn to voluptuous female shapes just as much as men!

There are so many diets, workout regimes, corsets and body-sculpting clothing out there for women who want to have the feminine curves that you have naturally. So love what you’ve got because, in this case, the grass is greener on your side.

7. Our curves make great accessories on the dance floor. We can shake our maracas in a miraculous rhythm. 

8. Just because there’s more to shake doesn’t make us “heavy.” It’s just the way we’re built. We’re thankful for all of us.
9. Just because we’re curvy doesn’t mean we’re going to eat junk food with you non-stop. We care about our health and our bodies. You should care about our health and bodies too.

10. No one should ever be ashamed to flaunt what she’s got.
11. We may never fit into boy shorts, drop-waist dresses, or skinny jeans, but just watch how we can fill out a bikini.

12.Your curves are a part of you,No matter how you feel about your body, it is your body and it always will be. Your curves are built on your bone structure and are dependent on how your body deposits fat - not necessarily how much fat you have. And this structural base isn’t going to change. We’re not saying you shouldn’t exercise and keep a healthy diet. What we are saying is that your silhouette is what it is, so embrace it! No one has the perfect body - only Photoshop creates perfect bodies. Confidence is possibly the most attractive trait that any person could have, so be proud and be beautiful just the way you are.

13. If we do get knocked down, we’ve got the built-in padding to prevent major injuries. We’re strong. We’ve got confidence. 

14. It’s been scientifically proven that curves on women attract men like “a drug.” I’m sure there are just as many men attracted to leaner ladies, but it’s comforting to know that the same goes for rounder types.
15. All the more to love, hold onto, fill your eyes with, and cherish deeply.


Ok, so you get the point. And I didn’t tell you anything you didn’t already know. But the problem is finding clothes that actually fit your curves and make you look as awesome as you feel inside.Real women have curves and embrace them, regardless of their age and what they do, they prove to us you to be proud of them.  They are part of who you are.  As long as you keep up with a healthy lifestyle, you most certainly rock your curves 24/7.  So don't be shy about being a curvy woman, be proud and love the skin you're in!
When life throws you curves ,embrace them 
Thank you for reading 



  1. This write up got me.....Woooo. And truth be told I’ve just gained more confidence .Thanks so much for sharing this....So beautiful����


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